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Be Sweet: A Conditional Love Story
Roy Blount Jr. Manufacturer: Knopf ProductGroup: Book Binding: Hardcover Similar Items:
ASIN: 0679400540 Release Date: 1998-05-19 |
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Roy Blount doesn't like being 55. But then, does anyone? Hindsight being 20/20, we're sure to notice the mammoth pile of quirks, foibles, and just plain oddball behavior--not to mention downright nastiness--each of us has accumulated at the midlife point. If there's an observer you'd want to have there with you to sort out the good you've done (or at least the funny bits) and make all those bittersweet memories melt on your tongue, Blount may be the one.In Be Sweet, his hilarious yet deeply moving personal memoir, Blount holds up the recollections of his life for all to see, like an archaeologist uncovering something precious and rare, exposing his soul to the air. "There are various ways of being shameless in the world," he says. "One is to write a memoir." And this life's story, told in a subtle and self-effacing style, is shamelessly funny.
While exploring the maddening subtext of his relationship with his mother, Blount has written "a conditional love story," and shaped a wonderfully entertaining memoir filled with poignant truths and brilliant reflections. Be Sweet may leave you laughing, but you'll likely feel a little something welling in the corner of your eye, and find yourself looking at your own life with a smile on your face. --George Laney
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In the book his laughing and loving readers have been waiting for, our generation's master of full-hearted humor lays open the soul of his life story.Customer Reviews:
bitter with the sweet.......1999-10-29
Be Sweet in no way sets out to "make fun of the mother-son relationship". I suppose because Blount is such an irreverent goof-ball on the radio and in print, it seems fair to have that preconception. However, Blount has always let us know that some things are sacred and after you get a short way into this book you realize that family is one of them. He desperately does not want to cast aspersions on his own mother's character, but he has to acknowledge that she did drive him to distraction throughout his life.
There were several points in this book were Blount seems to be going off on a tangent. To be honest I began to wonder if he was just filling the space between the covers. Oh me of little faith! In the last third of the book I was progressively more amazed and impressed as I discovered that his seemingly unconnected threads were actually germane to the resolution of his mid-life psychic wrestling match with himself.
Bill Bryson's recent A Walk In the Woods similarly surprised me. I don't expect journalists to write deeply personal prose. Roy Blount beats Bryson hands down as far as the psychological depths that are plumbed and illuminated. If the presentation of the psychological dimension of things bores you or insults your sense of decorum, then don't read this Roy Blount book. If you want to know what is going on in the head of middle aged white Southern guys of above average emotional honesty, then this is a pretty good place to start.
A not very funny humorist!.......1999-07-02
An amazing book; very serious, but still true to past work.......1999-01-23
This work is very serious. It is his attempt to displell his "family curse." He explores his relationships with his parents, sister, and ex-wives. He speculates on the nature of humor and humorists.
I thought the book was brilliant. It's like Blount is willing to talk about things that no one else will because doing so would sound stupid, but it's still what you want to say.
An added bonus is Blount's voice. He is not a particularly elegant reader. But it is hard to imagine any other voice reading this work. I compare it to Jean Shepard, who also has the perfect voice for his own work.
Ingeniously written but a little self-indulgent.......1998-12-13
a wonderful and, yes, sweet, book.......1998-11-06
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Be Sweet: a Conditional Love Story (Harvest Book)
Roy, Jr. Blount Manufacturer: Harvest Books ProductGroup: Book Binding: Paperback ASIN: B000N76PN6 |
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Conditional Love: Parents' Attitudes Toward Handicapped Children
Meira Weiss Manufacturer: Bergin & Garvey ProductGroup: Book Binding: Hardcover Accessories: ASIN: 0897893247 |
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Questioning the myth of unconditional love between parents and children, this study examines the strength of the parental bond when children are born with physical defects. The author, a social scientist, studied parents' behavior toward 1,450 children born with defects in three hospitals in Israel, and then conducted follow-up studies over a period of six years with 200 families in their homes. One of the major recurring patterns of parental behavior was a massive tendency toward rejection of deformed children. Rejection was manifested by parents' wishes for drastic separation from their children through abandonment, institutionalization, or giving up for adoption. If brought home, the children were isolated and hidden from view. Weiss found that half of the newborns with physically observable defects were abandoned by their parents in the hospital. Even when the parents were assured by doctors that their children would develop intellectually or would not require special care, the tendency to abandon remained strong. Normal children who suffered physical deformity due to burns or other accidents were similarly rejected by their parents. This study will take a major place in the literature on human behavior because through exhaustive and long-term observation of actual behavior in thousands of individual situations, it exposes the extreme importance of physical appearance in interpersonal relations. The author describes how the deformity causes confusion in the parents' cognitive system, labelling the child with a name such as monster or devil or creature, or another non-human category. Parents' reactions to their children's body image are discussed and the concept of body boundaries is analyzed. Children connected to medical apparatus or sickly children are the cause of much parental rejection. Also, territorial restrictions are placed on the deformed child in the home. These range from closeting or imprisoning in unfurnished surroundings separate from the family to demotion to servant status within the family. This study refutes most assumptions in the literature and shows that forming bonds with one's biological child is not necessarily spontaneous, automatic, or natural, and that every child undergoes a process of adoption or rejection based on external appearance and whether or not that appearance matches the parents' image of a "person." Hospital personnel, social workers, sociologists and anthropologists will be profoundly influenced by this work, as will be all others who read it.
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Love Don't Conquer All: Conditional Love/Human Relationships
BoLaymon Harris II Manufacturer: AuthorHouse ProductGroup: Book Binding: Paperback ASIN: 1425930581 |
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note# even money cannot save a person from the inevitable reality of certain gloom and doom who fails to learn the true value of self, (that self is not #1 and the most important entity but is #3 proceeded by God and others ) the true value of honesty (knowledge that honesty is the best policy and it breeds respectability and responsibility ) and the true value of friendship which is the real substance of any real relationship between humans, (the ability to care enough for another as much as you do yourself with no holds bared ) without these three main key elements assimilated into one's character, not only will the sad individual end up being disconnected from themselves (leaving pieces of their real-ness falsely protected in a secret closet somewhere) but unconnected and disassociated with every one else who ever was close or ever tried to get close enough to help or make some kind of a positive difference in their life.
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Conditional Love: Parents' Attitudes Toward Handicapped Children.
Manufacturer: 0 ProductGroup: Book Binding: Hardcover ASIN: B000IBNLIE |
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Jane's Warship Recognition Guide 4e (Jane's Recognition Guides)
Anthony J. Watts Manufacturer: Collins ProductGroup: Book Binding: Paperback Similar Items:
ASIN: 0060849924 Release Date: 2006-04-04 |
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The essential guide to the world's warships
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A treasure of information on Warships.......2006-07-01
Less Complete, but Smaller, Handier and a Lot Cheaper.......2006-06-26
Watts this?.......2006-04-29
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Memory and the Impact of Political Transformation in Public Space (Radical Perspectives)
Manufacturer: Duke University Press ProductGroup: Book Binding: Paperback Similar Items:
ASIN: 0822333643 |
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Memory and the Impact of Political Transformation in Public Space explores the effects of major upheavals—wars, decolonization, and other social and economic changes—on the ways in which public histories are presented around the world. Examining issues related to public memory in twelve countries, the histories collected here cut across political, cultural, and geographic divisions. At the same time, by revealing recurring themes and concerns, they show how basic issues of history and memory transcend specific sites and moments in time. A number of the essays look at contests over public memory following two major political transformations: the wave of liberation from colonial rule in much of Africa, Asia, and Central and South America during the second half of the twentieth century and the reorganization of Eastern Europe and the former Soviet bloc beginning in the late 1980s.
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Memory and the Impact of Political Transformation in Public Space.(by Daniel J. Walkowitz and Lisa Maya Knauer)(Book Review) : An article from: The Geographical Review
Paul Stangl Manufacturer: Thomson Gale ProductGroup: Book Binding: Digital ASIN: B000EQIHZA Release Date: 2006-02-28 |
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This digital document is an article from The Geographical Review, published by Thomson Gale on January 1, 2005. The length of the article is 1234 words. The page length shown above is based on a typical 300-word page. The article is delivered in HTML format and is available in your Amazon.com Digital Locker immediately after purchase. You can view it with any web browser.
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Within Reason: Rationality and Human Behavior
Donald Calne Manufacturer: Vintage ProductGroup: Book Binding: Paperback ASIN: 0375703225 Release Date: 2000-08-08 |
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Neurology researcher and clinician Donald Calne compares defining reason to assembling an incomplete jigsaw puzzle: we don't have all the pieces, and the pieces we do have don't always fit together well. But that doesn't stop him from setting out on the ambitious task of surveying our current understanding of reason and the historical role it has played for our species.Within Reason begins with a simple--and in some ways counterintuitive--definition of reason, calling it a mere tool, not a motivator of humanity but an enabler. A powerful and versatile tool to be sure, but one whose purpose is specific to helping us get what we want, not revealing why it is that we want it. With this supposition, Calne methodically dissects reason's role in such spheres as ethics, government, language, and religion, supporting each assertion with historical anecdotes and the writing and research of others.
If Within Reason is any indication, Donald Calne would be charming dinner company. While you might not agree with every point he makes, you'd never be disappointed by the conversation. --Paul Hughes
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It has long been a central conviction of western humanistic thought that reason is the most godlike of human traits, and that it makes us unique among animals. Yet if reason directs what we do, why is human behavior so often violent, irrational and disastrous?Customer Reviews:
A Major intellectual Achievement.......2005-01-17
Disappointing and Unoriginal.......2001-05-22
Good, even with its flaws.......2000-11-16
But the reason this is a good book is because of its thesis and subsequent discussion of rationality and its psychological correlates. There aren't enough books out there that deal with this, so it's a swig of cold water to read this one.
Of course, David Hume came to these same conclusions almost 4 centuries ago. The insight is not what's original, but the attempt to anchor it within the scientific (rather than philosophic) framework is. The implications of the idea that Reason is just a tool for getting what we want are significant for philosophy (especially ethics and political philosophy). Read the book; skim it if necessary, but it is worth your money.
Promises more than can deliver.......2000-06-15
Could have used a reasonable editor.......2000-05-24
The subject deserves a more nuanced and better edited discussion.
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Within Reason: Rationality and Human Behavior
Donald B. Caine Manufacturer: Pantheon Books ProductGroup: Book Binding: Hardcover ASIN: B000IMN340 |
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Boss: Richard J. Daley of Chicago
Mike Royko Manufacturer: Plume ProductGroup: Book Binding: Paperback Similar Items:
ASIN: 0452261678 |
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Chicago's Troll King!.......2006-08-25
Machine politics and corruption: Chicago style........2006-07-10
Independent Journalism at its best.......2006-03-06
Boss: a candid and honest account of Richard J. Daley and the city he built.......2006-02-24
details of a criminal politician.......2005-01-11
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BOSS: Richard J. Daley Of Chicago
Manufacturer: Signet ProductGroup: Book Binding: Mass Market Paperback ASIN: B000GRBQ6E |
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BOSS RICHARD J. DALEY OF CHICAGO
Mike Royko Manufacturer: E.P. Dutton ProductGroup: Book Binding: Hardcover ASIN: B000INOH12 |
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Manufacturer: New American Library ProductGroup: Book Binding: Paperback ASIN: 9993776572 |
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Boss - Richard J. Daley of Chicago
Mike Royko Manufacturer: Dutton ProductGroup: Book Binding: Hardcover ASIN: B000O634G2 |
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Boss - Richard J. Daley of Chicago
Mike Royko Manufacturer: New York: E.P. Dutton & Co. 1971 ProductGroup: Book Binding: Hardcover ASIN: B000O3PI0K |
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Manufacturer: Signet ProductGroup: Book Binding: Mass Market Paperback ASIN: B000HMUGH8 |
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BOSS - RICHARD J. DALEY OF CHICAGO - SIGNET451-17598
Mike Royko Manufacturer: Signet Book ProductGroup: Book Binding: Paperback ASIN: B000RAEPUY |
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Boss : Richard J. Daley of Chicago
Mike Royko Manufacturer: N A L ProductGroup: Book Binding: Mass Market Paperback ASIN: B000GR5OA8 |
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Boss Richard J. Daley of Chicago
Mike Royko Manufacturer: New American Library ProductGroup: Book Binding: Mass Market Paperback ASIN: B000HL11E6 |
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Trafalgar: An Eyewitness History (Penguin Classics)
Tom Pocock Manufacturer: Penguin Classics ProductGroup: Book Binding: Paperback Similar Items:
ASIN: 014144150X |
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On October 21, 1805, Admiral Horatio Nelson dealt a crushing blow to a large French and Spanish fleet, forever dashing Napoleon's hopes of dominating the seas. Edited by Tom Pocock, the world's foremost authority on Nelson, this extraordinary book gathers eyewitness accounts of the historic event, many of which have never before been published. Vivid correspondence and documentation offer glimpses of history in the making, from the two-year campaign leading up to Trafalgar, to the explosive clash itself, to the aftermath of this most famous and strategically important victory.Customer Reviews:
Through the eyes of those who were there.......2006-04-28
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The Enemy at Trafalgar: Eyewitness Narratives,Dispatches and Letters from the French and Spanish Fleets
Edward Fraser Manufacturer: Greenhill Books ProductGroup: Book Binding: Hardcover Similar Items: ASIN: 1861762291 |
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Tom ( Ed. ) Pocock Manufacturer: Penguin Books ProductGroup: Book Binding: Paperback ASIN: B000TYVI3A |
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Trafalgar. An Eyewitness History
Tom Pocock Manufacturer: The Folio Society ProductGroup: Book Binding: Hardcover ASIN: B000HLLEY8 |
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Trafalgar: An Eyewitness History
Tom, Edited and Introduced By, Pocock Manufacturer: The Folio Society ProductGroup: Book Binding: Hardcover ASIN: B000T3WWIQ |
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Between Dictatorship and Democracy: Russian Post-Communist Political Reform
Michael McFaul , Nikolai Petrov , and Andrei Riabov Manufacturer: Carnegie Endowment for International Peace ProductGroup: Book Binding: Paperback Similar Items:
ASIN: 0870032062 |
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For hundreds of years, dictators have ruled Russia. Do they still? In the late 1980s, Soviet President Mikhail Gorbachev launched a series of political reforms that eventually allowed for competitive elections, the emergence of an independent press, the formation of political parties, and the sprouting of civil society. After the collapse of the Soviet Union in 1991, these proto-democratic institutions endured in an independent Russia. But did the processes unleashed by Gorbachev and continued under Russian President Boris Yeltsin lead eventually to liberal democracy in Russia? If not, what kind of political regime did take hold in post-Soviet Russia? And how has Vladimir Putin's rise to power influenced the course of democratic consolidation or the lack thereof? Between Dictatorship and Democracy seeks to give a comprehensive answer to these fundamental questions about the nature of Russian politics.Customer Reviews:
A close scrutiny of the democratic reforms .......2005-06-05
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Theodore Roosevelt: Wilderness Writing (Literature of the American Wilderness)
Theodore Roosevelt Manufacturer: Peregrine Smith Books ProductGroup: Book Binding: Paperback Similar Items:
ASIN: 0879052198 |
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Theodore Roosevelt, the twenty-sixth president of the United States, was not only the most famous hunter of his generation of Americans, he was among its best informed and popular outdoor writers. Edmund Heller, the well-known Smithsonian biologist who accompanied Roosevelt on the famous African expedition, said that the former president was the world's foremost authority on large mammals. He was also an avid bibliophile, and had what may have been the finest big-game library in North America in the early 1900s. He communicated with authorities-- both sportsmen and scientists-- in all parts of the world. From this lifelong study and enthusiasm for outdoor adventure came a host of durable writings, gathered together here in a collection which celebrates the natural world.Customer Reviews:
Teddy, what a story!.......2007-01-02
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Through the Brazilian Wilderness
Theodore Roosevelt Manufacturer: Kessinger Publishing, LLC ProductGroup: Book Binding: Paperback Similar Items:
ASIN: 1417924586 |
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1925. This volume contains Roosevelt's account of a zoogeographic reconnaissance through the Brazilian hinterland. The official and proper title of the expedition is: Expedicao Scientifica Roosevelt-Rondon. Contents: The Start; Up the Paraguay; A Jaguar-Hunt on the Taquary; The Headwaters of the Paraguay; Up the River of Tapirs; Through the Highland Wilderness of Western Brazil; With a Mule-Train Across Nhambiquara Land; The River of Doubt; Down an Unknown River into the Equatorial Forest; and To the Amazon and Home; Zoological and Geographical Results of the Expedition. See other titles by this author available from Kessinger Publishing.Download Description
Cherrie and Miller had secured a little owl a month before in the Chaco, and it was travelling with them in a basket. It was a dear little bird, very tame and affectionate. It liked to be handled and petted; and when Miller, its especial protector, came into the cabin, it would make queer little noises as a signal that it wished to be taken up and perched on his hand. Cherrie and Miller had trapped many mammals. Among them was a tayra weasel, whitish above and black below, as big and blood-thirsty as a fisher-martin; and a tiny opossum no bigger than a mouse.Customer Reviews:
Remarkable Adventure.......2003-06-02
Roosevelt's other works, including "The Rough Riders", are better known, and this one is not great literature. Instead, it is a remarkable adventure story by an interesting man. The book is essentially Roosevelt's trip diary, colored by his great enthusiasm for adventure and the natural world. Even before reaching the Amazon, Roosevelt stops at a Brazilian snake research lab that so captures his attention that he writes seventeen pages about it. At all times, he makes careful note of the wildlife he encounters, not quite with the depth of a professional scientist, but with the trained eye of a dedicated and experienced hobbyist. He squeezes in some amusing stories about piranha fish that he heard --and apparently believed. Naturalists of the day killed animals in the name of science, which places in context Roosevelt's joy in hunting and his comments: first on alligators ("They are often dangerous and are always destructive to fish, and it is good to shoot them") and later on conservation ("There is every reason why the good people of South America should waken... to the duty of preserving from extinction the wildlife which is an asset of such interest."). The book is most poetic in its description of animal life, and particularly in registering surprise that the myriad insects are far more pernicious than any of the better-known dangers such as alligators, big cats, or piranhas.
The book's is not perfect, and Roosevelt is not a great author in a literary sense, rather making up in enthusiasm what he lacks in prose and penetrating insight. There is no attempt at political analysis, he simply praises Brazilians as good hosts who have started down the road to democracy. He sees the land he travels through as like the United States of perhaps a hundred years earlier, so there are frequent predictions that a promising location is ripe for development. The limited foray into politics is to praise Positivism, the ideology of the Brazilian military class that emphasized modernity and structure, and that not incidentally justified the many instances of military intervention in Brazilian politics over the years. Finally, the one annoyance is the recurring theme (perhaps a dozen times in all) of the true danger of the journey. Over and over we read that the river has never been charted, that it is truly dangerous, that the explorers are not your armchair-adventurer variety, and that such voyages will necessarily be easier for those who follow in the future. We get that.
Roosevelt was an interesting man, his enthusiasm and taste for adventure are infectious. The book is not a literary triumph, but it is a fun read and an excellent journey through the Amazon
Great Writing, Great Adventure.......2002-11-02
Second, his writing is greatly under-appreciated. He doesn't breeze over his descriptions of wildlife or the landscape--it's pretty technical stuff--but he does it clearly and concisely. As someone who has labored through countless pedantic textbooks, I took comfort in his words, "Ability to write well, if the writer had nothing to write about, entitles him to mere derision. But the greatest thought is robbed of an immense proportion of its value if expressed in a mean or obscure manner."
Third, despite the above, he could still endure enormous physical hardship at an old age. Battling rapids, hauling canoes, fighting disease, and hunting game, TR had the combination of brawn and intelligence that's seriously lacking in our leaders today, especially the lightweight that now sits behind TR's desk.
This book is also a great window into a time and place forever lost to history. TR's writing projects a clear photo in your mind of undiscovered wilderness and great adventure.
Teddy Roosevelt's Last Great Adventure.......2002-03-30
Science's loss was politics gain. However, T.R. never lost his interest in nature. Following his presidency, he set out on an expedition to explore and map unknown regions of Paraguay and Brazil on the 950-mile River of Doubt, a previously unexplored tributary of the Amazon River. The scientific endeavor became an ordeal to test the expedition's courage and stamina as it faced overpowering heat, dangerous rapids, wild animals, devouring ants, endless insects, fever, dysentery and more. The expedition collected thousands of species of birds and mammals, but Roosevelt would die a few years after completing the expedition. Roosevelt admired those who lived life with passion and for what he called "the Great Adventure." This story chronicles one of T.R.'s last great adventures in his typical inimitable style.
An excellent narration of T.R.'s sometimes perilous journey.......1998-01-11
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